Validation that my choice NOT to get the seasonal flu shot was a good idea:)Thursday, September 24, 2009
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Chauvinist vs. Feminist
I recently met a guy at a party, very talented guitarist and thank goodness for that because otherwise I wouldn't understand why the universe created him. I was just interested in knowing the guy because he's so darn talented, but he had other things in mind. I've posted most of the online chat we had. I changed his name because at the end of the day I feel sorry for the guy. I don't think I've ever encountered a person like this before... I don't even know how to categorize him!!
Strangely enough, our conversation gives me a great sense of validation. He's the kind of guy that I was thinking of when I wrote my last posting... though his sexual talk was less jovial and more angry. Whatever, the guy is a ridiculous prick and I'll happily spend the rest of my days never having to interact with him again.
...
2:29pmMichael
are you a hippy girl?
2:30pmMelanie
um, my look is urban hippy chic...
lol
naw, I guess I'm a little bit hippy...
I just like being comfy
2:30pmMichael
nice
2:31pmMelanie
but at the same time I love high heels
2:31pmMichael
I think yer hot..
2:31pmMelanie
just rarely wear them cuz I'm a social liability when I do.... er... don't say that
2:31pmMichael
why?
2:32pmMelanie
I'm sure you mean it as a compliment, I just hate being called hot... call it a quirk.
2:32pmMichael
what would you rather be called?
scrum-diddly-umpsish
2:33pmMichael
that means tasty by the way
2:35pmMelanie
lol... I dunno... smart, funny, enthusiastic.... sorry, I've been called hot since I was 12... it's kind of lost its magic... to me hot=fuckable, disposable... and I am neither
2:35pmMichael
disposable?
weird..
2:36pmMelanie
hookers are hot... you know?
the skanks looking to pick up in the club district are hot
2:36pmMichael
yeah, but they cost money
2:36pmMelanie
I'm not hot
2:37pmMichael
ok
2:38pmMelanie
haha... sorry, little feminist coming out there
2:38pmMichael
yeah.. sounds like it
2:38pmMelanie
there are just so many other words in the English language... that one's pretty done for me
2:39pmMichael
Ive dated a feminist once.. the sex is lousy, and they hate intimacy...
they hate male sexuality
2:39pmMelanie
ouch! way to paint with broad strokes!
2:39pmMichael
they think of male sexuality and violence
and=as
2:39pmMelanie
not all feminist are created equal
some male sexuality is violent tho... SOME
2:40pmMichael
this is what I have to say to them... if you don't like sex with men.. be a dyke.. stop telling me im a rapist just because I like to fuck girls
2:41pmMelanie
who said you were a rapist because you like having sex with women?
2:41pmMichael
ive heard so much male bashing.. I dont care anymore
the nice men are paying for what a SMALL minority of men do... just because the media jumps ALL over it when this minority acts that way
and Ive had to pay for it by getting knocked by women who believe the television
the television is crock of shit.. it magnifies a small portion of reality and makes it seem bigger than what it is
2:42pmMelanie
dude you need to get out of Rhil
2:43pmMichael
and people believe it
2:43pmMelanie
not all people
but yeah, I gotcha
2:43pmMichael
so yeah. basically I don't want to get married, I think marriage is shit.. and I am looking for girls who can enjoy sex without needing to have a legally binding agreement
and I find the ones who choose to enjoy it that way
without all the guilt bullshit
so yeah. thats what I think
men want sex... thats life
2:44pmMelanie
tell me how you really feel:P
2:44pmMichael
thats it
2:46pmMelanie
I was kidding. yeah I get that men want sex... but "wanting" and "being entitled to" are two different things that sometimes men can get confused... women too! so does that mean that you don't want any relationships in your life? relationship sex tends to be the best... get to know each other's bodies, likes, dislikes
2:47pmMichael
I am capable of explaining my likes and dislikes, and listening to the likes and dislikes of others..
2:47pmMelanie
that's not what I mean
2:48pmMichael
are you looking to get married?
2:48pmMelanie
one day, probably
just haven't found anyone worthy
2:48pmMichael
I don't see a point to getting married...
it means nothing other than a financial agreement
if we like eachother.. then we choose to be around eachother
2:49pmMelanie
sure, but there are a lot of benefits to being married, and if you're going to be with the person anyway, may as well take advantage of those perks... benefits like shared taxes, being next of kin, not mention having a partner
2:50pmMichael
I have lived with a woman already in my life.. I know how the system operates..
2:50pmMelanie
etc
2:50pmMichael
and its not in my favour.. that is for sure
I just dont want to be owned by someone
under the threat of the law
2:50pmMelanie
whoa.... someone's jaded
2:50pmMichael
every woman I was with seriously.. I loved dearly
and everytime
love was taken advantage of..
so I learned the hard way
shared taxes is hardly a benefit
2:51pmMelanie
learned what? that things won't last so don't get too involved? Sound like you've just chosen the wrong women
2:51pmMichael
I want to meet people who are not hung up on tradition
people are afraid to step out of line.. to they stick to tradition
I however, do what I want
regardless of whoever may shame me
2:53pmMelanie
well you're certainly passionate about it
2:53pmMichael
well.. I learned this..
the majority of women want marriage, family, and children... and you need to pay for that... so I am looking for a minority of women that exist.. who dont want that.
my line of work does not guarantee money.. but it guarantees my happiness
2:54pmMelanie
well, you haven't found it here... just thought I should let you know
2:54pmMichael
so I do not qualify for those who want security..
thanks for being honest
2:54pmMelanie
I want babies one day... and I don't intend to work to pay for someone else to raise them
I can’t imagine passing off my child at 1 year and going back to work... full time anyway, not for the first 5 years or so
2:55pmMichael
I dont want children...
2:56pmMelanie
why?
2:56pmMichael
I dont believe the world we live in is a good place to bring new life
2:56pmMelanie
sorry, you have every right to want what you want... it just puzzles me when ppl don't want any kids at all
2:57pmMelanie
we can bring better energy into the world when we share it with our children... if I accomplish nothing else, and that's unlikely, I'll know that I made a positive impression on the earth by bring in loving individuals like my children
2:58pmMichael
music is my children...
2:59pmMelanie
well, this may sound harsh, but that may be all you have in your old age if you keep this mentality
just sayin
no partner, no children...
2:59pmMichael
I suffered the death of the illusion of love...
2:59pmMelanie
what will you be left with?
ouch
2:59pmMichael
my accomplishments
2:59pmMelanie
that's so sad
2:59pmMichael
It's not real
it evolves into wanting ot have children
its nature
3:00pmMelanie
wow... you and I are like complete opposites eh?
3:00pmMichael
nature gives us illusions so that we live out its plan
I lost that illusion
adult love is a contract
under the law
3:00pmMelanie
noooo
3:00pmMichael
involving money
3:00pmMelanie
no
no, that may be marriage, but it's not love
3:01pmMichael
why do most of you want to get married then?
because it guarantees you money
and you wont marry a guy that doesnt have stable money
so its a contract
good character, talent, niceness, means nothing.... without the money
ive seen it time and time again
3:03pmMelanie
men evolutionarily want a women with good birthing hips, women want someone who can support them while they tend to their young... it's not shallow it's nature... money can be indicative of different character traits
hardworking, dedicated, loyal, ambitious
3:04pmMichael
I do something that brings people happiness and a good time.. its just that our world makes it difficult for people like me to make money... its the way I was made, to express music..
3:04pmMelanie
sometimes the success rate doesn't reflect the amount of work put in... but I wouldn't go with a guy just because he had money
dude, you're young... be patient
3:04pmMichael
I am all those things to the max.. its just it doesnt make money in this culture
3:04pmMelanie
again, be patient
3:04pmMichael
I lived with a woman already.. I know how the system operates
3:05pmMelanie
you don't have to have a day job... that says something
3:05pmMichael
you can control our behaviour by threatening the law..
I will never be in that place again
3:05pmMelanie
HAHAHAHAHA!!!! You live with ONE woman and you think you've got it all figured out!?!?!
I was essentially owned by a guy 4 years ago... haven't been with anyone since... but don't jump to conclusions like that!!
don't let one bad relationship get you down
3:06pmMichael
you know what I dont like.. when people call girls sluts because they fuck lots of guys
why should a woman be called a slut if she likes to fuck lots of guys.. its her right..
3:06pmMelanie
well, neither do i
3:06pmMichael
to be honest
I love sluts.. they make me feel great
I dont think they should be viewed negatively
3:07pmMelanie
well, i think it's the intention behind the sex, not the sex itself
3:07pmMichael
a woman should be able to enjoy all the sex she wants without being shamed
and you know what
I love sex with strangers.. and I dont give a shit if I ever see them again
I dont even need to know their name..
3:07pmMelanie
sure, but many times it's her that's shaming herself because she doesn't actually want the sex she's having or she thinks it will bring her things that it doesn't actually bring
3:07pmMichael
I love going to other towns.. playing gigs... and having a fellatio cunnilingus exchange
i fuckin love it
and I am not ashamed
3:08pmMelanie
good for you
3:08pmMichael
and I dont care about the feminist cock bashing bullshit that comes from closet dykes
3:09pmMelanie
wow... um... don't really know what to say to that
3:09pmMichael
we just hear so much of these days..
its mindless yammering that people are told to believe
I love sexual based relationships..
no names, no talking..
yummy
3:11pmMelanie
sounds very fulfilling
3:11pmMichael
well it certainly isn't draining
like other things
3:11pmMelanie
listen, if you're just looking to get your cock wet then I think you're talking to the wrong girl
I've got way more to offer than sex, tho, the sex is phenomenal..
3:12pmMichael
im glad we covered all this
3:12pmMelanie
and if all you've got is a hard on I think I'll pass
you sound really angry
and I don't like being around that kind of energy
3:13pmMichael
yeah.. and the whole feminist thing is a dance ive done before..
3:13pmMelanie
yeah, well I've done the chauvinist douchebag thing too
good thing you can play the guitar
3:13pmMichael
she is a faithful mistress
3:13pmMichael
in regards to your chauvinist call.... I am self sufficient.
I just dont care to be used
3:16pmMelanie
treat others how you'd like to be treated...
Michael
nice idea.. doesnt work in reality
3:17pmMelanie
pfffft, so says you bitter man
3:17pmMichael
realistic man
3:17pmMelanie
reality is a matter of perception
3:19pmMelanie
anyway, I've got some shit to do... Sorry, but I don't think I'm interested in Thursday anymore. Not only are we not on the same page, we're not reading the same book
Holy crap can you believe that???? Had a feeling there was a bit of red neck in him, but whoa!
Strangely enough, our conversation gives me a great sense of validation. He's the kind of guy that I was thinking of when I wrote my last posting... though his sexual talk was less jovial and more angry. Whatever, the guy is a ridiculous prick and I'll happily spend the rest of my days never having to interact with him again.
...
2:29pmMichael
are you a hippy girl?
2:30pmMelanie
um, my look is urban hippy chic...
lol
naw, I guess I'm a little bit hippy...
I just like being comfy
2:30pmMichael
nice
2:31pmMelanie
but at the same time I love high heels
2:31pmMichael
I think yer hot..
2:31pmMelanie
just rarely wear them cuz I'm a social liability when I do.... er... don't say that
2:31pmMichael
why?
2:32pmMelanie
I'm sure you mean it as a compliment, I just hate being called hot... call it a quirk.
2:32pmMichael
what would you rather be called?
scrum-diddly-umpsish
2:33pmMichael
that means tasty by the way
2:35pmMelanie
lol... I dunno... smart, funny, enthusiastic.... sorry, I've been called hot since I was 12... it's kind of lost its magic... to me hot=fuckable, disposable... and I am neither
2:35pmMichael
disposable?
weird..
2:36pmMelanie
hookers are hot... you know?
the skanks looking to pick up in the club district are hot
2:36pmMichael
yeah, but they cost money
2:36pmMelanie
I'm not hot
2:37pmMichael
ok
2:38pmMelanie
haha... sorry, little feminist coming out there
2:38pmMichael
yeah.. sounds like it
2:38pmMelanie
there are just so many other words in the English language... that one's pretty done for me
2:39pmMichael
Ive dated a feminist once.. the sex is lousy, and they hate intimacy...
they hate male sexuality
2:39pmMelanie
ouch! way to paint with broad strokes!
2:39pmMichael
they think of male sexuality and violence
and=as
2:39pmMelanie
not all feminist are created equal
some male sexuality is violent tho... SOME
2:40pmMichael
this is what I have to say to them... if you don't like sex with men.. be a dyke.. stop telling me im a rapist just because I like to fuck girls
2:41pmMelanie
who said you were a rapist because you like having sex with women?
2:41pmMichael
ive heard so much male bashing.. I dont care anymore
the nice men are paying for what a SMALL minority of men do... just because the media jumps ALL over it when this minority acts that way
and Ive had to pay for it by getting knocked by women who believe the television
the television is crock of shit.. it magnifies a small portion of reality and makes it seem bigger than what it is
2:42pmMelanie
dude you need to get out of Rhil
2:43pmMichael
and people believe it
2:43pmMelanie
not all people
but yeah, I gotcha
2:43pmMichael
so yeah. basically I don't want to get married, I think marriage is shit.. and I am looking for girls who can enjoy sex without needing to have a legally binding agreement
and I find the ones who choose to enjoy it that way
without all the guilt bullshit
so yeah. thats what I think
men want sex... thats life
2:44pmMelanie
tell me how you really feel:P
2:44pmMichael
thats it
2:46pmMelanie
I was kidding. yeah I get that men want sex... but "wanting" and "being entitled to" are two different things that sometimes men can get confused... women too! so does that mean that you don't want any relationships in your life? relationship sex tends to be the best... get to know each other's bodies, likes, dislikes
2:47pmMichael
I am capable of explaining my likes and dislikes, and listening to the likes and dislikes of others..
2:47pmMelanie
that's not what I mean
2:48pmMichael
are you looking to get married?
2:48pmMelanie
one day, probably
just haven't found anyone worthy
2:48pmMichael
I don't see a point to getting married...
it means nothing other than a financial agreement
if we like eachother.. then we choose to be around eachother
2:49pmMelanie
sure, but there are a lot of benefits to being married, and if you're going to be with the person anyway, may as well take advantage of those perks... benefits like shared taxes, being next of kin, not mention having a partner
2:50pmMichael
I have lived with a woman already in my life.. I know how the system operates..
2:50pmMelanie
etc
2:50pmMichael
and its not in my favour.. that is for sure
I just dont want to be owned by someone
under the threat of the law
2:50pmMelanie
whoa.... someone's jaded
2:50pmMichael
every woman I was with seriously.. I loved dearly
and everytime
love was taken advantage of..
so I learned the hard way
shared taxes is hardly a benefit
2:51pmMelanie
learned what? that things won't last so don't get too involved? Sound like you've just chosen the wrong women
2:51pmMichael
I want to meet people who are not hung up on tradition
people are afraid to step out of line.. to they stick to tradition
I however, do what I want
regardless of whoever may shame me
2:53pmMelanie
well you're certainly passionate about it
2:53pmMichael
well.. I learned this..
the majority of women want marriage, family, and children... and you need to pay for that... so I am looking for a minority of women that exist.. who dont want that.
my line of work does not guarantee money.. but it guarantees my happiness
2:54pmMelanie
well, you haven't found it here... just thought I should let you know
2:54pmMichael
so I do not qualify for those who want security..
thanks for being honest
2:54pmMelanie
I want babies one day... and I don't intend to work to pay for someone else to raise them
I can’t imagine passing off my child at 1 year and going back to work... full time anyway, not for the first 5 years or so
2:55pmMichael
I dont want children...
2:56pmMelanie
why?
2:56pmMichael
I dont believe the world we live in is a good place to bring new life
2:56pmMelanie
sorry, you have every right to want what you want... it just puzzles me when ppl don't want any kids at all
2:57pmMelanie
we can bring better energy into the world when we share it with our children... if I accomplish nothing else, and that's unlikely, I'll know that I made a positive impression on the earth by bring in loving individuals like my children
2:58pmMichael
music is my children...
2:59pmMelanie
well, this may sound harsh, but that may be all you have in your old age if you keep this mentality
just sayin
no partner, no children...
2:59pmMichael
I suffered the death of the illusion of love...
2:59pmMelanie
what will you be left with?
ouch
2:59pmMichael
my accomplishments
2:59pmMelanie
that's so sad
2:59pmMichael
It's not real
it evolves into wanting ot have children
its nature
3:00pmMelanie
wow... you and I are like complete opposites eh?
3:00pmMichael
nature gives us illusions so that we live out its plan
I lost that illusion
adult love is a contract
under the law
3:00pmMelanie
noooo
3:00pmMichael
involving money
3:00pmMelanie
no
no, that may be marriage, but it's not love
3:01pmMichael
why do most of you want to get married then?
because it guarantees you money
and you wont marry a guy that doesnt have stable money
so its a contract
good character, talent, niceness, means nothing.... without the money
ive seen it time and time again
3:03pmMelanie
men evolutionarily want a women with good birthing hips, women want someone who can support them while they tend to their young... it's not shallow it's nature... money can be indicative of different character traits
hardworking, dedicated, loyal, ambitious
3:04pmMichael
I do something that brings people happiness and a good time.. its just that our world makes it difficult for people like me to make money... its the way I was made, to express music..
3:04pmMelanie
sometimes the success rate doesn't reflect the amount of work put in... but I wouldn't go with a guy just because he had money
dude, you're young... be patient
3:04pmMichael
I am all those things to the max.. its just it doesnt make money in this culture
3:04pmMelanie
again, be patient
3:04pmMichael
I lived with a woman already.. I know how the system operates
3:05pmMelanie
you don't have to have a day job... that says something
3:05pmMichael
you can control our behaviour by threatening the law..
I will never be in that place again
3:05pmMelanie
HAHAHAHAHA!!!! You live with ONE woman and you think you've got it all figured out!?!?!
I was essentially owned by a guy 4 years ago... haven't been with anyone since... but don't jump to conclusions like that!!
don't let one bad relationship get you down
3:06pmMichael
you know what I dont like.. when people call girls sluts because they fuck lots of guys
why should a woman be called a slut if she likes to fuck lots of guys.. its her right..
3:06pmMelanie
well, neither do i
3:06pmMichael
to be honest
I love sluts.. they make me feel great
I dont think they should be viewed negatively
3:07pmMelanie
well, i think it's the intention behind the sex, not the sex itself
3:07pmMichael
a woman should be able to enjoy all the sex she wants without being shamed
and you know what
I love sex with strangers.. and I dont give a shit if I ever see them again
I dont even need to know their name..
3:07pmMelanie
sure, but many times it's her that's shaming herself because she doesn't actually want the sex she's having or she thinks it will bring her things that it doesn't actually bring
3:07pmMichael
I love going to other towns.. playing gigs... and having a fellatio cunnilingus exchange
i fuckin love it
and I am not ashamed
3:08pmMelanie
good for you
3:08pmMichael
and I dont care about the feminist cock bashing bullshit that comes from closet dykes
3:09pmMelanie
wow... um... don't really know what to say to that
3:09pmMichael
we just hear so much of these days..
its mindless yammering that people are told to believe
I love sexual based relationships..
no names, no talking..
yummy
3:11pmMelanie
sounds very fulfilling
3:11pmMichael
well it certainly isn't draining
like other things
3:11pmMelanie
listen, if you're just looking to get your cock wet then I think you're talking to the wrong girl
I've got way more to offer than sex, tho, the sex is phenomenal..
3:12pmMichael
im glad we covered all this
3:12pmMelanie
and if all you've got is a hard on I think I'll pass
you sound really angry
and I don't like being around that kind of energy
3:13pmMichael
yeah.. and the whole feminist thing is a dance ive done before..
3:13pmMelanie
yeah, well I've done the chauvinist douchebag thing too
good thing you can play the guitar
3:13pmMichael
she is a faithful mistress
3:13pmMichael
in regards to your chauvinist call.... I am self sufficient.
I just dont care to be used
3:16pmMelanie
treat others how you'd like to be treated...
Michael
nice idea.. doesnt work in reality
3:17pmMelanie
pfffft, so says you bitter man
3:17pmMichael
realistic man
3:17pmMelanie
reality is a matter of perception
3:19pmMelanie
anyway, I've got some shit to do... Sorry, but I don't think I'm interested in Thursday anymore. Not only are we not on the same page, we're not reading the same book
Holy crap can you believe that???? Had a feeling there was a bit of red neck in him, but whoa!
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